Closing Date For JAMB Change of Course/Institution for 2016 Extended

Due to some hitches experienced on JAMB change of course and institution portal lately, the 2016 JAMB Change of Course and Institution has been extended.

However, this extension will not be long. The official closing date for 2016 JAMB Change of course/institution is on Friday 13th, May 2016. There will be no further extension.

We understand that many candidates are waiting to know the cut-off marks of their respective institutions before making the decision on whether or not to go for change of course and institution. However, many of this institution usually wait until announcing their post-UTME sales of forms to make known their cut-off marks.

If you wait that long, you may have only succeeded in putting yourself in an unfavourable position because change of course and institution would have been very much over by that time.

So what you should rather do is make your decision based on the previous Post-UTME cut off marks of these institutions and effect the necessary changes immediately.

Please DO NOT WAIT UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE.

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BE YOUR OWN BOSS - FREE TUTORIAL :- Practical Guides On How To Make Your Liquid Soap From The Comfort Of Your Room And How To Earn Your Income From It.

Only a lazy person will say there is nothing to do but an agile individual will always find something to do.





As tough as the economy of nigeria is, those who are making it are still making it legally.

This will be my first tutorial on kayodesblog.in and I will be giving a big reference to a friend and a blogger concerning this article,practicalbusinessibeas.com .

Very quickly, I will want you to know that this whole process is not hard, all you need is to be focused and read along.

No house can do without washing in a day and this can only be done through soap and am glad to announce to you that most people prefer liquid soap to solid ones.

Quickly,we will be starting the real thing.
Drop all you are doing and concentrate.


We Want To Produce A 20 Litre Liquid Soap.

Below Are The Needed Materials :-


Nitrosol/Antisol or C.M.S..........1 tin milk cup ( very full).
Sulphonic acid..............1 litre
Caustic soda.................1/3 tin milk cup
Soda ash...................1/2 tin milk cup
Texapon...........................5-6 teaspoonfuls
Formaline........................5-7 teaspoonfuls (optional)
Perfume(Fragrance)........as desired.
SLS. (Sodium laurate sulphate)..............5-6 teaspoonfuls
S.T.P.P (sodium Tripolyphosphate).........5-6 teaspoonfuls
Colorant.................as desired
Water........................19 litres

Prices Of Each Material Base On Quantity Needed Above :-

-Sulphurnic acid-----------1/2 litre (N450)
-Caustic soda-------------1/2 kg (N90)
-Soda ash-----------------1/2 kg (N90)
-Nitrosol------------------1/8 kg (N250)
-Coloor-------------------1Sachet(N50)
-STTP--------------------1/4 kg (N50)
-SLS----------------------1/8 kg (N190)
Perfume-------------------(N100) depends on the type you are
going for.

Important Materials Needed :-

• Containers (Plastic bowls)
• Hand gloves
• Nose mask
• Stirring rod (Turning Stick)

Preparation Techniques :-


» Dissolve the caustic soda with 1 litre of water and allow to stay for 30 minutes to 1hr or over night.

» Dissolve soda ash in 1 litre of water and allow to stay for 30min/hr or over night.

» Get your sulphonic acid, pour inside an empty bowl, and add your perfume (fragrance) to it and the texapoon, then add like 3-4 litres of water and stir very well for about 5 - 10 minutes.

» Dissolve the SLS with 2 tin milk cups of water

» Dissolve the STPP with 2 tin milk cups of water also

» Get the Nitrosol but if it is C.M.C you’re using, make sure it is dissolved 2 days to the preparation of the soap with 4-5 litres of water. If you are using Nitrosol, it's used instantly (as in, no need soaking it down).

Now To The Full Processing :-

-Get the Nitrosol that has been dissolved in water or the C.MC. that has been dissolved 2 days to the preparation of the soap.

-Add the dissolved sulphonic acid, texapon and perfume to either the Nitrosol or C.MC depending on the one you are using and stir very well.

-Add the already dissolved caustic Soda and stir very well.

-Add the already dissolved soda ash and stir properly.

-Add formalin to the content and stir properly.

-Add the dissolved S.T.P.P and stir.

-Add the dissolved SLS to the content.

-Dissolve your colourant in water and ensure that the colourant is completely dissolved, then add it to the solution and stir thoroughly.

-Add some quantity of water to the mixture, depending on the thickness of the mixture.
Leave the mixture for some hours or preferably till the following day and then package for use or for sale.

Did I just hear you say " so its this easy ? "

Then try yours right there and now :

MATERIALS MEASUREMENT
Sulpunic Acid 1 peak milk tin
Caustic Soda 1 spoon
Soda Ash 2 spoon
STTP or SLS 1/2 spoon
Nitrosol 1 tomato tin cup(just at mouth level)
Texapon 1/2 spoon
Formalin Optional (just some drops)
Fragrance(perfume)1/2 spoon or as desired
Water 2-3 litres

Use the giving materials and measurement given above to produce 2-3 litres of liquid soap.

Important Guidelines :-

-Dilute your sulpunic acid with 1/2 litre of water.

-Dissolve the nitrosol with 1/2 litre or just a little less.

-Dissolve the caustic soda with 1 tomato tin cup of water.

-Dissolve the soda ash with 1 milk tin cup of water.

I believe various questions will be running through your mind now like :





» How do I make money through this ?

Loads of ways my dear, irrespective of who you are,either a student or a mother, even guys can opt in for it.

• Choose the best price for the best quantity.
• Make the quality and the quantity attractive.
• Locate people on your street or hostel.


» But There Are Lots Of People In This Business Already.

Yes,but you can make the difference. You can make your packaging superb.

• Make your quantity higher than that of others at affordable rate.

• Get a good plastic design (durable and lasting).

Kudos to practicalbusinessideas.com

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Top Effective Ways To Surmount Competition And Become The Best Anywhere You Find Yourself.

May I firstly put it to you that the best atmosphere to evaluate yourself is in a competitive atmosphere.





Leading a competitive environment is not something one can't attain but there are some rules to follow.

If you remember back then in your primary school days when you fight to lead the class and get everybody looking up to you as the champion,that is a strive which is competition.

Competition is something we encounter almost everywhere and everyday because somebody somewhere feels he/she is better than you are and can outgrow you.

The main question now is how do you personally beat your competitors hands down.

it is very certain that most times you become very uncomfortable when things you ought to get easily suddenly become the survival of the fittest due to competition.


Becoming the best anywhere you find yourself is something you can't afford to loose if you get its trick.

May I put it to you today that everybody has the tendency of being defeated which means that you can still outshine anybody at any time if you are really ready to do it.

That means you also must fasten your seat belt to maintain the competitive level because those you want to outshine are not dummies.

Apparently in this post,I will be giving some tips that will make you the best everywhere you find yourself if you really want to. It is very interesting and honourable when you get to a place and people say

" The guru is here,let him do it and teach you "


The main types of competitions I will be dwelling on here is in 2 phase

• Class Competition As A Student,
• Competition In Business Environment.


1} Class Competition As A Student :-

As a student in higher institution or secondary school,the real big boy or big boy does not come when you wear good outfits or speak american english but when you are sound all rounder.

Becoming the best student in your class sometimes makes you popular and respected than you imagine.

First thing you need to do is Believe in yourself. When you believe that you can come out best in that class then the foundation is set.

Secondly, you should Be Reserved. You don't have to be loud so that they will recognise you. You result will advertise you. You should be calm to do more of studying and observation.

Look at the existing best student,what does he do with his time,is he a book warm type? Tap from him and get your own become solid.

Thirdly, you have to Go Extra Mile . If must record an uncommon achievement,you must do the uncommon. Make your research online about anything you are taught.

If everybody depends on the teacher alone,you add your text book and internet.

Furthermore, Never Joke With Classes,Assignment And Attendance. This are the main thing you need to make sure you do. Don't drop any of them,be regular in class and do home works.

Note that competition is not a fight so you shouldn't hate anyone,just be good at what you do,

• Know your weak points
• Know how to balance it
• Never joke with your study time
• Be humble
• Never allow pride etc.


2} Competition In Business Environment :-

Are you just starting a business and you want to take over the market. Its simple, just follow the rules :-

• Get a good brand name
• Get a good logo
• Make quality goods
• Provide quality services
• Never inflate price because others are doing so.
• Do promo
• Study your competitors to know their weakness
• Care more about you visitors/customers
• Produce harm free goods/services
• Place your advert
• Never underestimate your customer
• Have a good outlet. Etc

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Identifying That Great Key That Can Unlock Your Greatness.

In most cases,people often embark on a 2 hours journey for 2days, not because they are slow at walking but because they don't really know where they are heading for.






May I put it to you that if you are still there saying " I will just keep trying everything to see which will work out " then the future is really seating on a gun powder.


In you and me is one great key/weapon that can unlock that door of greatness but as much as we refuse to fish out that key, the door can't be penetrated.

I am not saying education is not a key but there are some keys that are inborn. In my article " Beyond Schooling " I will shed more light on this.

Sometimes,to some people, education only complements their abilities and to others its vice versa.

Attaining greatness is something that requires patience and planning, its not something you just jump into.

Life is like GIGO(Gabage In,Gabage Out). It is the result of the amount of seriousness and pursuit you give it that it will give you in return.

We need to seat down and present yourself in a paper and and examine yourself.

• Map out what you want,
• Map out the resources you really have to get to where you want.

Let us be frank with ourself, the nigeria that is coming to exist tomorrow will favour those who are not only educated but has a side ability that really speaks cash.

You have something in you that you know you need to develop that will take you places. Sometimes you might need to train it well before it really bloom.

I was actually a science student in my ss1 days,I had always nursed the dream of becoming an automobile engineer but then at this ss1 class,I wrote a story book of over 25 pages with drawing.

People saw this and where marvelled that how come? That is the key! But I never knew. I am not studying english that relates to writing now, am a student of business administration but my writing skill is really linking me and its taking me beyond comprehension.

It is also in you, you need to bring out that special thing you have in you, who knows,you might be that person ordained by God to invent something that will be so valuable to the world but are ready to use the key.


• Michael dell identified his
• Michael faraday identified his
• Dangote identified his entrepreneur skills.

Do you know you been good at something does not stop you from studying something else. As an artist, do you know you can do cartoon works with your system,bring it out and turn it to portrait.

You might have interest in tech,follow it up,learn various things,its not a must you be a blogger,you can be a programmer or web designer,not for cheap sites but for companies.


Also see :- Top Effective Ways To Surmount Competition And Become The Best Anywhere You Find Yourself.


Never join the bandwagon of those who wait for what the future will bring them,but give the future what it should bring.

Don't run a race you are not sure where it will end,run with target,bring out yourself in a mirrior and analyse things like :

» What do I have in me or at my disposal that can aid my success ?

» What do I need to exhibit it or bring it to the world ?

» Finally,what is holding me back ?

Answer this questions and you will never run your life thesame way.

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Evaluating Your Past Years And Knowing Your Tendency Of Moving Forward.

The greatest joy of most people presently is the grace to witness the last month of the year 2015.





Most people desired to be a partaker of this celebration but death has smiled at them. Most are tied down by the cold hands of sicknesses in the hospital.

The only reason why you get to see eachday up to this minute is a chance to become better and affect your world.

It is a pity that most people has become useless to the world and even to God and still rejoice every time. What is the joy of your existence when you are not fulfilling the purpose for which you where created.

Life is not just a dumping ground or where God just put people to stay and watch. If it where to be so, we should all be in heaven.

Most people has retained their position since the past year or more and are not even moved.

Have you tried asking yourself

• How old am I ?
• Have I even discovered my purpose of living ?
• Am I even working towards them ?
• How long do I still have to live ?

We no longer want people who will just litter the world without use.

The joy of celebrating each day is beeing able to account that you have sppent the previous years or day making a change and working towards your purpose in life.

» Some don't even know where they are going even at this age,
» Some are just embelded with gift and has decided to waste the resourses of heaven.

Do you know how many peoples destiny are tied to yours ?

Do you know some people are waiting for your inspiration and motivatio ?

Do you it has been planned that, that your gift will pave way for someone elses success, and you are there idle and not only wasting away your life but also of those that are tied to it.

It is not about seeing every day,week, month, or year that matters but what you have been able to do with each day.

Why must we continue to rejoice stagnancy?

Why must we continue to rejoice ignorance ?

Why must we continue to rejoice failure ?

Sit down NOW! And ask yourself,

what as been my impact ?

The joy of life I celebrate is God not just wasting his resources upon me ?

You need to know, the earlier the better.
Don't be swept up and down by the wind of life, have a bearing of where you are going.

If you have spent 18 good years of your life without being able to say yes, this is what God is saying about my life or this is the pace at which he wants me to run, then there is a problem.

Then to be frank with you, for you to be productive with your existence, you must glue yourself to your maker.

If you must get the correct bearing and perspective for your life, you need to create a relationship with your maker(GOD) through jesus christ.

He is the only one that leads with the hope of a wonderful ending. If you must tap up there, you must hold on to a super natural help from heaven.

What change will you make ?
How far do you want to go ?

Do more than exist.. be productive.

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Breaking Your Fears And Gaining Courage To Do The Impossible.

" And Peter answered him and said, Lord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water. And he said, Come. And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus."



I will want you to read along with optimum concentration and expectation as the holy spirit will be speaking to us in two diverse ways from the passage above.

The Two Major Areas We Will Be Touching Are;

1. The Area Of Our Pursuit,and

2. Our Spiritual Life.

The passage quoted above was extracted from the bible in the book of matthew chapter 14 verse 28 and 29.

From this passage, which started earlier before chapter 28, we saw jesus break the law of physics by walking on the sea. The fear that this was impossible for any man threw the disciples into a state of fear which they exhibited by shouting but one thing that struck me was the reply of jesus. He said to them " courage! ".

Most of us today, we have thrown away our courage and has bowed to the control of fear. The disciples could see what was working on the sea approaching them but instead of being courageous, calm and strategising on how to overcome it when it comes closer, they declared their fear to retreat and surrendering by shouting.

So many of us has given up our quest for greatness because of the troubles and problems we hear and has not even witnessed.

Away from this, when we look further in that passage, we saw that jesus declared himself when he got closer to them and until then did they regain theirself. Thesame applies to you, most of those problems you had ran away from and quitted your race because of were actually little things you could have fought against and conquered.

Peter said to jesus, " order me to walk on the sea " and jesus did as he asked and immediately peter stood up and entered the water and began working.

Surely it was not only peter that was sitting in the boat, there were other disciples there, but it was only peter that believed he could walk on the water.

As far as you decide to seat with those who have no thirst or courage to step into the invisible, you can never go beyond your limit.

Only peter left his comfort zone. He did not do what others were doing(sitting down) he stepped out to do something greater.

Peter did not look at the fact that it was water, he was not seeing himself trying to stand on water but he already saw himself standing in his heart and that is what triggered him to action.

I want us to see jesus as the goal peter was aiming. We can see that for sometime, peter maintained his balance and walking step on the water because he kept his focus on the goal, where he was going, who he wanted to go and meet and to this effect he had no issue.

The problem began when he lifed his eyes away from his goal and started placing more attention on the odds around him. He started to sink when he allowed fear into him. Are you reading this article, this is a challenge that you should never concentrate on your problems because it will only make you sink.

It is incumbent on you to keep your eyes focused on the price ahead, that is what will inspire you to move on but when you begin to give attention to haters, discouragement, fear and all sort of thing, you will begin to sink.

Peter began to sink but he did not sink completely. This is where my problem and you problem lies. When we see that we are sinking, instead of seeking to rise again, we loose hope. Peter called unto jesus and said "save me".

Have you fallen ? Then you should seek help to stand again. It is not over untill its over. Never give up, desire to rise again and fire on instead of surrendering.

TO THE SPIRITUAL PART OF IT

The disciples where the closest to jesus and they have been together for a long time under his teachings. They saw him do miracles but yet had no courage and couldn't even recognise him from afar.

God has done so many things in your that were even beyond your comprehension but now that you are facing a problem, you forget the mighty ability of the God you serve and submit to the decit of the devil.

Some of us are like the other disciples who has no atom of courage to even do what jesus did. Have you forgotten that it was written that we can do all things(without exception) through christ who strengthen us.

Are you not just following jesus because of what you will eat or get from him, do you really desire to tap that power that you need to pocess as a son or daughter.

Have you taken a bold step to go to jesus as peter did ? A close study at that passage of the bible shows us that peter went on the sea with nothing heavy that could weigh him down. He dropped all he had in the both but forgot his to drop his fear.

Why have you not forsaken all for the sake of christ,why do you hold on to those little sins, or don't you know they are the things drawing you to make you sink. You should keep your eyes glued to him because he is the author and the finisher of our faith.

Peter sank when he took away his eyes from jesus but he called out for salvation. There is still a chance for you this day, don't wait to sink completely, call unto jesus now and he will save you.

Jesus ordered peter to come out from among them, so is jesus calling you out to come an enjoy his eternal glory.

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Practical Guides On How To Secure Admission With Your Low Jamb Score In 2016.

Good day to all our honourable visitors. I want to believe we are all awear that post utme is just around the corner and the foundation of our 2016 as far as admission is concerned will be layed or determined by this UTME.



The major drive behind this post is to quickly prepare our mind in other for us not to fall victim of what affected some people in 2015. If you are conversant with me here, you will notice one of my update on practical guides on how to secure admission in 2016.

What we will be discussing now is quiet different and be most helpful to you. I have noticed something in most of us and that is in the aspect of our jamb score. Immediately our school cut off mark for jamb is 200 and we unfortunately score below it, we just personally write our admission off which is very bad.

Time they say waits for no man,this is the time we have to pursue everything we intend to acquire in life and if we become wary, we will only be building a mansion for failure towards the future.

I will be dropping some alternative ways through which we can secure our admission irrespective of our low jamb score and please be informed that this is not a go ahead for you to relent in your study but just incase.

I want to believe we know that ;

» University Cut Off Mark Ranges From 180 - 200 above.

» Polytechnic Cut Off Mark Ranges From 150 above.

Schools vary so if you score less than 200, there are lot of schools that will admit you.
Below are list of schools that accepts 180

. Abia State University, Uturu, ABSUU: 180 first, 2nd and no choice. University of Maiduguri, UNIMAID: 180 first and second choice.

UNIVERSITY	CUT OFF MARK	CHOICES
Usmanu Danfodiyo University, Sokoto	180	1st and 2nd
University of Uyo, Uniuyo	180	1st only
University of Calabar,Unical	180/200course varies	-
Federal University of Technology Owerri,FUTO	180	1st and 2nd
University of Agriculture, Abeokuta UNAAB	180	-
University of Jos, UNIJOS	180	1st and 2nd choice
Niger Delta University NDU	180	1st
TAI Solarin University of Education TASUED	180	1st
Federal University Dutsin-Ma, Katsina	180	1st
Federal University Oye-Ekiti	180	1st and 2nd
Federal University, Otuoke, Bayelsa State	180	1st and 2nd
Ebonyi State University EBSU	180	1st and 2nd
Federal University of Petroleum Resources, Effurun	180	1st and 2nd
Enugu State University of Science Tech	180	1st and 2nd
Rivers State University of Science and Technology, RSUS T	180	1st
Delta State University, Abraka, DELSU	180	1st and 2nd
Rivers State University of Science and Technology, RSUS T	180	1st
Rivers State University of Science and Technology, RSUS T	180	1st
Kogi State University, KSU	180	1st and 2nd
Michael Okpara University of Agriculture, Umud ike	180	1st and 2nd
Anambra State University	180	1st and 2nd
Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma	180	1st
Kaduna State University, KASU	180	-
Imo State University IMSU	180	1st and 2nd

Note: All Private Universities will admit you if you score 180 and above.
Source : http://nigerianuniversityscholarships.com.

With this, the next thing I will like to inform you about is how to play your cards if you end up having a low mark.

Let's Kick It :-

1. Obtain A Change Of Course Or Institution :-

Probably after your utme you discovered you had a low score, don't get disappointed and give up, opt in for a change of course or institution.

• You need to first look at your score,

• Check the cut off mark of the school you want to opt in for,

• Change your course to anyone with lower cut off within thesame institution,

• If none, look out for institution with lower cut off to your score and opt in.

2. Try The Free Entry Institution :-

Don't be surprised about this. I have given this article herein quiet a number of times that there are institutions that give supplementary admission to students who did not pick them in jamb.

All you need to do is watch out for this schools, immediately they bring out this form, you go for it and remember, you will also be processing those you chose in jamb.

Here Are The List Of Some Of Them :

• Ladoke Akintola University of Technology (LAUTECH)

• Ekiti State University (EKSU)

• Enugu State University of Science and Technology
(ESUT)

• Institute of Management and Technology (IMT), Enugu

• Afe Babalola University, Ado-Ekiti (ABUAD)

• Gregory University, Uturu

• Lagos State University (LASU)

• Olabisi Onabanjo University (OOU)

• Federal University Otuoke (FUOTUOKE)

• Plateau State University Bokkos (PLASU)

• Ignatius Aturu University Of Education (IAUE)

• Abia State University, Uturu (ABSU)


3. Consider A Polytechnic :-

You will be exhibiting the highest level of hypocrisy when you say you can't go to a polytechnic and yet you have no admission to the university while others are through with their ND level and processing their DE.

Your degree only stay where you want it to. Do your ND and after that go for DE or have your HND and go for postgraduates.

Other ways to secure admission includes

4. Pre Degree.
5. IJmb,
6. Diploma.

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Mutual Understanding and Trust A Threat To Break Ups

The rate at which young couples today seeks divorce is extremely growing beyond control. It should not be a surprise if kids of today begin to grow with the mentality that divorce is part life.



Youths often jump into relationships today and after sometimes call it quit due to some reason that are not genuine,I began to wonder how possible it will be for such people to maintain a marriage if they can barely date for a year before quitting. Research and observations has showed forth understanding and trust a threat to divorce.

May I put it to you that in most cases,how and where couples meet determine how far they will go. One inevitable fact about life is that everyone can never show/do what you expect from them. This necessitate the fact that you need to understand others temperament so has to know how to relate with them.

The way you will take things,react to them or approach them is not the way I would, but immediately you understand me, you can never have problem with me. The bed rock of modern day divorce is lack of trust.

Some couples still doubt what they are capable of doing,they read meanings to every step their companion takes and thereby create unnecessary tension for themselves. I find it very funny when I see couples fight each other on the street and after been settled still walk on the same street holding each other,do you have an understanding of the perspective from which people will view them?

If your relationship will last and divorce will be scared off,there is high need for you to understand you spouse and trust him. So many homes has broken on the term “I heard he/she is cheating on me” or “why are you always like this?”

You should learn to call your spouse to a round table and discuss matters hanging around the corridor,drag them in and trash them out and watch thing grow better.

SOME OTHER FACTORS THAT SUSTAINS A
RELATIONSHIP ARE:

» Display of maturity in approach to situations

» Avoiding external interference

» Patience

» Being observant

» Avoid the “quit” mentality

» Give attention to each other

» Fill in for each other always and at everywhere.

If an individual finds it difficult to maintain his relationship of control his family and is seeking to be a leader somewhere,he had better call it quit because you not been able to pull together a relationship and sustain it can never qualify you to rule an organization, local government,state or country.

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Ten Amazing Factors That Constitute Your Inner Beauty

The concept " inner beauty " has been a general term used by virtually everybody to discern a good or bad personality.



Most of us are familiar with this word, we even use it often times but are blank about the meaning.

Its is very important you know that the major part of your personality is your inner man because everything you exhibit for people to see is the product of what is inside.

I will like to digress a little to a general thing we often argue about when it comes to issues like this relating to relationships.

•Some will say outer beauty doesn't matter asfar as there is inner beauty,

• On the contrary, some say importance of the outter beauty supersede that of inner.

Lol, well it is an individual thing, your view of things might negate mine but to be frank, the inner beauty is something of great importance.

To buttress this, I will like to correct this mentality that we often have that inner beauty is only attributed to ladies. Point of correction, it is for all.

Irrespective of your gender, when people look at you, they tend to see beyond your visible person and take it or you leave it, there is no way you can hide you inner person. At one point or the other you will definitely exhibit it.

What Constitutes Your Inner Beauty

1. Patience,

2. Love,

3. Endurance,

4. Maturity(not by age but by understanding)

5. Kindness,

6. Humility,

7. Goodness,

8. Concern For Others,

9. Perseverance,

10. Dependable and Trustworthy.

There are more to this add yours and become a better person.

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Top Effective Ways To Live 90% Of Your Life Without Regrets.

At some point or the other in your life, it is very much certain that you will look back and wish you never said or did somethings.



I could have titled this article " Top Effective Ways To Live 100% Of Your Life Without Regrets." but to be frank with you,I will only be hyping you because regrets are in evictable in life, the gravity might just be different.

You as a person reading this article might have done somethings or made some mistakes that has affected you or is affecting you presently, negatively. There might be a way to getting out of it but this article will help you not to fall into another.

Regrets is one bad factor in life that weakens you, sometimes it defines your end. May I quickly put it to you that there are two major types of lessons you learn in life and they are,

1. Learning To Correct and

2. Learning In Regrets.

I will want you to get this today that there are some mistakes you make, actions you take, words you say that immediately you create them wrongly, corrections can never be made.

When you were much more younger, you might have accidentally deeped your hand into a burning candle light and got hurt but in that process you were able to learn never to try it again because you hand were still intact. That was a lesson you learnt and could still amend but assuming the hand got burnt, then that is the perfect definition of learning in regrets because no amendment can be made again.

The most rampant word people use to show their state of regret is "had I know", some might be correct saying this, they might have fallen into the mistake as a result of poor orientation or awareness but the reverse is the case in the life of most of us. Most of the terrible mistakes most of us make that leads to regrets are been triggered by some of the following factors below;

» Carelessness

» Over Confidence

» Lack Of Self-control

» Poor Decision Making

» Wrong Consultation

» Dwelling More On Assumption

» Negligence

» Waving Of Corrections etc.

So many people after making a terrible mistake starts crying and depressed not because they where not advised before their actions but because they just want to please their self. Living a life free from regrets can best be attained by being concious of most of the actions you take.

May I briefly deviate a little, I will like to quickly disclose to you Three Major Angles From Which Regrets Comes In Most Cases.

1. Decision Making,

2. Actions,

3. Speech.

1. Decision Maiking :-

Sometimes after some years when tend to recall some decisions we made and kind of wish we did not.

Decisions should not be credited at the instance of its making untill the result is seen and certainly good. Most people has rendered their relationship life useless today because of the decision they made years ago.

So many people has become psychologically affected and emotionally robbed due to the situation they made and latter start regretting it.

Some has ended up nailing theirself unknowingly through the rash decision they made and when outcome begin to manifest, they begin to exclaim "had I know"

Most student get affected by this in admission decision making, when they are suppose to come down and pick the right choice, they go astray because of the points highlighted above and at the end of all when not admitted, they now begin to wish they had gone another way.

2. Action :-

Most of us are guilty in this aspect. Lots of people has been completely nailed by their actions. At the instance of taking actions, we do it without having the result in view. If we seriously check into what our actions might result in to, we won't do most things we do.

Most people would have finished fighting their helper before regretting their actions.

Most people would have finished concluding on a situation before they know they have implicated theirself.

Most people would have finished bursting things before they realise they have kept their on life on the line in the process.

3. Speech :-

The words you say are as vital as a life. So many people utter words without thinking and sets their future on fire through it. I read an article on nairaland earlier today on a guy who had earlier insulted a man on an online forum. He happened to be dating the mans daughter and on his first visit to the ladies house, he met the man and they related well not knowing they where at logger head online.

The guy happened to leave his laptop at the girls house and went out but on getting back, the man had already gone through the system and discovered the guy. On the guys arrival, the man stated the issue and sent the guy away totally.

You must be ever concious of what you say because they mostly leave the present and go to hide in the future waiting for you.

Practical Guides On How To Avoid Living A Life Of Regrets :-

• Be Ever Concious Of What You Say and Do,

• Be Ever Concious On The Conclusions You Make,

• Never Act Base On Asumption,

• Always Analyse The Outcome Of Every Decision Before Taking It,

• Shun Over confidence,

• Always Be Yourself In Every Circumstance.

• Never Underrate People No Matter The Age,

• Always Work and Walk With The Future In Mind.

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