Top Effective Ways To Live 90% Of Your Life Without Regrets.

At some point or the other in your life, it is very much certain that you will look back and wish you never said or did somethings.



I could have titled this article " Top Effective Ways To Live 100% Of Your Life Without Regrets." but to be frank with you,I will only be hyping you because regrets are in evictable in life, the gravity might just be different.

You as a person reading this article might have done somethings or made some mistakes that has affected you or is affecting you presently, negatively. There might be a way to getting out of it but this article will help you not to fall into another.

Regrets is one bad factor in life that weakens you, sometimes it defines your end. May I quickly put it to you that there are two major types of lessons you learn in life and they are,

1. Learning To Correct and

2. Learning In Regrets.

I will want you to get this today that there are some mistakes you make, actions you take, words you say that immediately you create them wrongly, corrections can never be made.

When you were much more younger, you might have accidentally deeped your hand into a burning candle light and got hurt but in that process you were able to learn never to try it again because you hand were still intact. That was a lesson you learnt and could still amend but assuming the hand got burnt, then that is the perfect definition of learning in regrets because no amendment can be made again.

The most rampant word people use to show their state of regret is "had I know", some might be correct saying this, they might have fallen into the mistake as a result of poor orientation or awareness but the reverse is the case in the life of most of us. Most of the terrible mistakes most of us make that leads to regrets are been triggered by some of the following factors below;

» Carelessness

» Over Confidence

» Lack Of Self-control

» Poor Decision Making

» Wrong Consultation

» Dwelling More On Assumption

» Negligence

» Waving Of Corrections etc.

So many people after making a terrible mistake starts crying and depressed not because they where not advised before their actions but because they just want to please their self. Living a life free from regrets can best be attained by being concious of most of the actions you take.

May I briefly deviate a little, I will like to quickly disclose to you Three Major Angles From Which Regrets Comes In Most Cases.

1. Decision Making,

2. Actions,

3. Speech.

1. Decision Maiking :-

Sometimes after some years when tend to recall some decisions we made and kind of wish we did not.

Decisions should not be credited at the instance of its making untill the result is seen and certainly good. Most people has rendered their relationship life useless today because of the decision they made years ago.

So many people has become psychologically affected and emotionally robbed due to the situation they made and latter start regretting it.

Some has ended up nailing theirself unknowingly through the rash decision they made and when outcome begin to manifest, they begin to exclaim "had I know"

Most student get affected by this in admission decision making, when they are suppose to come down and pick the right choice, they go astray because of the points highlighted above and at the end of all when not admitted, they now begin to wish they had gone another way.

2. Action :-

Most of us are guilty in this aspect. Lots of people has been completely nailed by their actions. At the instance of taking actions, we do it without having the result in view. If we seriously check into what our actions might result in to, we won't do most things we do.

Most people would have finished fighting their helper before regretting their actions.

Most people would have finished concluding on a situation before they know they have implicated theirself.

Most people would have finished bursting things before they realise they have kept their on life on the line in the process.

3. Speech :-

The words you say are as vital as a life. So many people utter words without thinking and sets their future on fire through it. I read an article on nairaland earlier today on a guy who had earlier insulted a man on an online forum. He happened to be dating the mans daughter and on his first visit to the ladies house, he met the man and they related well not knowing they where at logger head online.

The guy happened to leave his laptop at the girls house and went out but on getting back, the man had already gone through the system and discovered the guy. On the guys arrival, the man stated the issue and sent the guy away totally.

You must be ever concious of what you say because they mostly leave the present and go to hide in the future waiting for you.

Practical Guides On How To Avoid Living A Life Of Regrets :-

• Be Ever Concious Of What You Say and Do,

• Be Ever Concious On The Conclusions You Make,

• Never Act Base On Asumption,

• Always Analyse The Outcome Of Every Decision Before Taking It,

• Shun Over confidence,

• Always Be Yourself In Every Circumstance.

• Never Underrate People No Matter The Age,

• Always Work and Walk With The Future In Mind.

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