Mutual Understanding and Trust A Threat To Break Ups

The rate at which young couples today seeks divorce is extremely growing beyond control. It should not be a surprise if kids of today begin to grow with the mentality that divorce is part life.



Youths often jump into relationships today and after sometimes call it quit due to some reason that are not genuine,I began to wonder how possible it will be for such people to maintain a marriage if they can barely date for a year before quitting. Research and observations has showed forth understanding and trust a threat to divorce.

May I put it to you that in most cases,how and where couples meet determine how far they will go. One inevitable fact about life is that everyone can never show/do what you expect from them. This necessitate the fact that you need to understand others temperament so has to know how to relate with them.

The way you will take things,react to them or approach them is not the way I would, but immediately you understand me, you can never have problem with me. The bed rock of modern day divorce is lack of trust.

Some couples still doubt what they are capable of doing,they read meanings to every step their companion takes and thereby create unnecessary tension for themselves. I find it very funny when I see couples fight each other on the street and after been settled still walk on the same street holding each other,do you have an understanding of the perspective from which people will view them?

If your relationship will last and divorce will be scared off,there is high need for you to understand you spouse and trust him. So many homes has broken on the term “I heard he/she is cheating on me” or “why are you always like this?”

You should learn to call your spouse to a round table and discuss matters hanging around the corridor,drag them in and trash them out and watch thing grow better.

SOME OTHER FACTORS THAT SUSTAINS A
RELATIONSHIP ARE:

» Display of maturity in approach to situations

» Avoiding external interference

» Patience

» Being observant

» Avoid the “quit” mentality

» Give attention to each other

» Fill in for each other always and at everywhere.

If an individual finds it difficult to maintain his relationship of control his family and is seeking to be a leader somewhere,he had better call it quit because you not been able to pull together a relationship and sustain it can never qualify you to rule an organization, local government,state or country.

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