Relationships keep us going at times. We break down in front of the
other person and we allow ourselves to completely trust and love them.
However, there is no point of being in a relationship that has no
future. It is better to walk alone than to walk into a wall while
walking with someone.
Here are 6 signs that your relationship has no future and you need to end it:
1. He forgets what you tell him.
Have you shared your favourite colour or your favourite song with him
just to find out that he forgot it later? You deserve attention and you
deserves a boyfriend who remembers things that you tell him. If he
forgets these little things, do you really think he will remember the
major things?
2. His friends don’t know that you exist.
He should be proud of having you and he doesn’t have to keep it a
secret. When you’re madly in love with someone, you at least mention
them in front of your friends. However, if his friends don’t know that
you exist or you’ve never met them, you really need to ask him if he is
serious or not.
3. You always make the first move.
From texting him in the morning to making plans for going out, if you
have to do everything then ask yourself if it’s really worth it. Shy
people find it hard to initiate things but even they make the move at
times. If you are supposed to do everything, and they just do it when
they want, don’t compromise.
4. You fight all the time.
A little amount of arguments is health for relationships but if you guys
cannot sit together without fighting then you need to assess things.
There should be some common ground between you guys. Fighting all the
time will not take you anywhere.
5. You have started finding other people attractive.
Do you feel the need to check out other people and then end up finding
them more attractive? Do you feel no guilt in doing so? If this is
happening to you then stop and ask yourself if you really need to stay
with the person you are with. You’re not even feeling belonged then what
is the point of dragging it.
6. His thoughts don’t come in your head.
You don’t have to be obsessive and I am definitely not preaching that
but did you just spend your day without even thinking of him once? Did
you think for a minute about what he must be up to right now? No? Then
sweety, what are you doing wasting your time and telling people that
you’re committed?
5. The other person doesn’t respect you.
Does he look for instances to ridicule you or make fun of you? Are you
the laughing stock when you guys sit together with your friends or other
couples? If he doesn’t how to respect you, what makes you think that he
will respect you at some point? Respect is a point that shouldn’t be
compromised upon. NEVER.
6. The other person is not 1% possessive.
He or she do not just care about you. They don’t get bothered if someone
flirts with you openly or when someone checks you out in public, then
do they even feel like you’re theirs? I am sorry but stop wasting your
time and get out now.
